The Lowdown on Having Adult Sex on the First Date

When you meet a cool girl you like, you ask her out, go on a date, see a movie, have dinner, and all that jazz. It can either be awkward, or it can be fantastic. And since you’re out on a date, you have every intention to know her intimately. Of course, you expect her to make you work for it, and as guys, we most certainly will, because maybe, just maybe she’s that rare one we’ve been looking for all our lives. We all know that women are still caught up in the stigma of having adult sex with guys on the first date, wherein hey think they are considered a slut when this happens. This is the reason why chances of this happening are pretty slim, unless, of course, you met her at some adult dating site.

Let’s just say the girl decides to invite him in and f*ck the living daylights out of him. Here is all a woman needs to know about what’s going on inside a guy’s mind.

• The Pros

We’re not a hookup, we’re your date – If we’ve shared something to you that’s worth seeing each other again, wouldn’t you be interested in a little more than dinner and a movie? Wouldn’t you like to see us sans clothes, and then let us show you what you were interested in knowing from the start?

It is something fun to share – I’m pretty sure you’ve taken your hook ups home, had adult sex with them and sent them on their way. Of course, you will never see them again under these circumstances. However, the next time you go out with your date, you will have a lot of intimate things to discuss and share insights, jokes, observations, secrets to share that you would never have done with Johnny Beefcake, the douchebag who didn’t stay to spoon and watch you hustle to work to avoid being late.

• The Cons

To be honest, if you suck at adult sex, we will definitely lose interest. A lot of women think that the very act itself is enough for us. This is where they are wrong. We are expecting the same mind-blowing experience you’re expecting; it’s a two-way street. Don’t think just because you spread those legs and prop a pillow under your head that we’re all set. It takes a whole lot more than that, honey.

To tell you the truth, there are a lot of guys who are just looking to add a notch to their belts. But since you are intuitive and quite sensitive, you will be able to spot them from a mile away. So if you hold back on the first date, you will most likely never hear from them again.

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