That better way to get adult sex advice than from the experts themselves? If you think you are totally inept in the bedroom and look like a doofus when pleasuring a woman, go over this list of the best adult sex tidbits of very useful information from the best source you can get them the experts. - Stay in the shallow end
American sex researchers Master and Johnson have discovered that the outer third of the vagina is the most sensitive part of the female genitalia.
- Make her scream
A key chemical for sexual arousal is an adrenaline boost, according to sex and relationship therapist Paula Hall, who also suggests that a scary horror flick can put you both in the mood to do the dirty.
- Don’t ask, pay attention
This is one, if not the single most important thing you can do to boost your sex life, according to the author of “Revolutionary Sex” Allex Allman. “Asking her what she wants won’t work, but taking note of what she responds to does,” he says.
- Try role-playing, but get the plot right
According to sexologist Tracy Cox, the better planned out your erotic backstory is, the more exciting your ensuing “chance encounter with your prince charming/fireman/dominatrix will be.
- Treat her vagina like ice cream
As instructed by writer A. L. Harper, she says you should flatten your tongue when performing oral sex to your girl. “Your tongue should cover as much surface area as possible,” she says.
- Work your tongue sideways
Licking her up and down will make her tell you to stop, according to adult sex educator Jamye Waxman. She believes the south to north technique is too much for a sensitive spot.
- Give and you shall receive
Sex counselor Ian Kerner points out that if you do something for your partner, like a massage, then she is more likely to do something to you. Read: mind-blowing blowjob.
- Watch her face
This is the adage that iconic porn star Ron Jeremy lives by. He explains that if your girl is making a face that looks forced when having sex, then she’s just pretending to enjoy the whole experience. But if she looks like she has been punched in the kidneys, then she’s in the moment.
- Hit her G-spot
Orgasms that arise from g-spots are titanic and intense, according to sexpert Dr. Ava Cadell. They are totally different from the orgasms of clitoral nature she usually gets.
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