Ladies, when your casual sex partners just drop off the face of the earth, this doesn’t necessarily mean it’s your fault or if you even did anything wrong. There are just specific triggers that you may not be aware of things that tilt that really delicate scale to the side of not calling. Here are the top reasons why your casual sex partners stop calling: You said you’re not really looking for something serious, but really are, and he can tell.
The dating world is made up of two kinds of people: those who are looking for a serious relationship and those who aren’t. So, you have to be honest on which one you are. If you want something that’s totally casual, but looking for something otherwise, it’s going to show in weird ways. And because it won’t be fair to either of you, this may be the reason he’ll stop calling.
If you have the jealous / stalker vibe.
Everyone likes a little jealousy to spice things up, right? But if I’m on the second date and the girl is teasing me on any reference I make to other women in my life, there goes a red flag.
It was all too easy.
It may be silly and corny, but this doesn’t mean it’s not true. Men instinctively need mating resistance, so if you are always being readily available, nodding agreeably in everything he says, laughing at every line he dishes out and happily letting his bedroom preferences overcome yours, then what the hell makes you interesting?
You never paid.
Unless you are going out with rich guys, you have to pay sometimes! The obligatory purse reach may be great on a first date, but chances are he’s going to pay, right? So when you reach the second date, don’t ask to pay. Just tell him you’re going to pay. This is gesture is not meaningless, but in fact, it says that you can readily handle half of whatever relationship comes out after the first few dates.
You’ve been attacking him through social networks.
There are times when after a few dates you start to like someone, which then turns into infatuation. Don’t let this come out by adding him on Facebook, following him on Twitter and posting comments on his blog. Doing one of these is alright, and showing interest is great. Just not a landslide of it! Or you may as well have told him your mom sends her regards.
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